Minggu, 27 Februari 2011

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me with Vina

me!!!!! :)

Adilla, Anggun, Me

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Adilla, Adegita, Me, Anggun

Me, Anggun, Adilla

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Senin, 21 Februari 2011

100 Facts Girls Should Know.


  1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer presentable and neat girls.
  2. Guys hate flirts.
  3. A guy can like you for a minute, then forget you afterwards.
  4. When a guys says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
  5. “Are you doing something”
  6. Or “Have you eaten already” Are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
  7. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
  8. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
  9. Guys go gaga over a girl’s smile.
  10. Guys will do any papansin thing to get the girl’s attention.
  11. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
  12. When guys want to meet your parents…let them.
  13. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is – drinking. 
  14. Guys cry!!
  15. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up… believe me… he will.
  16. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
  17. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept defeat.
  18. When you touch a guys heart, there’s no turning back.
  19. Giving a guy a hanging message like, “you know what… uhh… nevermind!” Would make him jump to conclusions that are far from what you are thinking.
  20. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
  21. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
  22. When a guy makes a prolonged ‘um…’ or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
  23. When a girl says ‘no’, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”
  24. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message.
  25. Guys hate gays!
  26. Guys love their moms.
  27. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
  28. A guy often thinks about a girl who likes him, but this doesn’t actually mean that the guy likes her.
  29. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
  30. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime… he does.
  31. BEWARE! Guys can make gossip scatter through half the face of the Earth gaster then girls can.
  32. Girls are guys’ weaknesses.
  33. Guys are very open about themselves.
  34. It’s good to test a guy first before you believer him but don’t let him wait that long.
  35. Bo guy is bad when he is courting.
  36. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty even a small dot.
  37. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
  38. Your bestfriend, whom your boyfriend seek help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
  39. If a guy tells about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
  40. A usual act thatproves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
  41. A guy find ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
  42. Guys love girls with brains than girls in mini-skirts.
  43. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl really wants but he would unluckily end up with the wrong one.
  44. Guys virtually brag about anything.
  45. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
  46. Guys think too much.
  47. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
  48. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does.
  49. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship that they become too possessive… so watch out girls!
  50. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
  51. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially if they have been together for three years or more.
  52. A guy have to experience rejection because if he’s too good—never been busted, never been in love and hurt—he wont mature and grow up
  53. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
  54. When an unpleasant circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
  55. Guys have strong passion to change but have wake will power.
  56. Guys are tiger in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
  57. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
  58. When a guy says he’s going crazy about the girl… he really is.
  59. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying “please come and listen to me”.
  60. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
  61. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
  62. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen him.
  63. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
  64. Guys believe that there is no such thing as love at first sight, but they court the girls anyway.
  65. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
  66. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
  67. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
  68. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
  69. Guys love girls who can cook.
  70. Guys like girls who are like their moms… no kidding!
  71. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
  72. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to you advantage.
  73. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejections.
  74. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudices and you’ll be surprised.
  75. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
  76. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
  77. Guys don’t comprehend the expression “get lost!” Too well.
  78. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them all the more.
  79. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
  80. Guys don’t care about on how shiny their shoes unlike girls.
  81. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
  82. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
  83. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
  84. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
  85. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
  86. When a guy is conscious of his look, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
  87. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed on you or he’s criticizing you.
  88. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him but when you catch him cheatingagain and he asks for another chance, ignore him 
  89. If you have a boyfriend and your bestfriend is a boy, always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is that your bestfriend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
  90. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
  91. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
  92. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain… when he cries in front of you.
  93. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him why.
  94. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even for just one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
  95. You can truly say that a guy has a good intention if you see him praying sometimes.
  96. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
  97. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things… not their hair!
  98. If someone says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
  99. Guys hate girls who over-react.
  100. Guys love you more then you love them if they are serious in your relationship.
  101. REMINDER: Test a guy first if he’s really the one. Some are just pretending to be one.

If he really loves you,


  • He’ll be jealous if you’re with other guys
  • He’ll always remember the memories you shared
  • He’ll cry over you
  • He’ll admit his mistakes
  • He’ll not replace you with other girls no matter what

Senin, 14 Februari 2011

so here they are

halo! mau ngepost nih tentang cowo-cowo kece artis youtube favorit gue! ehehe
mereka adalah.............BOYZ II BOYS!!! haha mereka cowo-cowo ganteng, suaranya bikin Melt cewe-cewe termasuk gue salah satunya yg udah jadi korban mereka!
BOYZ II BOYS terdiri dari :
Adera Beboy Teddy Aji
suara mereka tuh enak-enak banget! sumpah lo denger suara mereka pasti melting! haha
tuh liat sendiri yaaaaa haha
ini foto-foto yg gue printscreen HAHA



haha liat ya liat emang kak Beboy itu ganteng! EH TAPI KAK BEBOY PUNYA GUEEEEEEEE HAHAHA



love,


widy :>

Sabtu, 12 Februari 2011

Move On :''''D

How do I end up in the same old place
Faced again with the same mistakes
So stubborn, thinking I know what is right
But life proves me wrong every time

Taking roads that lead me no where,
How do I expect to get there
But when will I learn to just put you first

I come to you now when I need you
But why do I wait to come see you
I always try to do this on my own
But I was wrong, cause only with you
Can I move on (can I move on)

When I am weak, it's you that makes me strong
And I know that you've been with me all along
So many times I forget to close my eyes
And listen to my heart
With you, life is so easy
Why do I make it hard

Oh, taking roads that lead me no where,
How do I expect to get there
When will I learn to just put you first

I, I come to you now when I need you
But why do I wait to come see you
I always try to do this on my own
But I was wrong, cause only with you
Can I move on

I'll get out of my own way,
Let you have your way
Cause I realized I'm no good on my own
I'm there for you, I'll serve for you
I can't live without you

I come to you now when I need you
Why do I wait to come see you
I always try to do this on my own
But I was wrong, I was wrong, I was wrong,
With only you, only you, with only you
Can I move on, can I move on, can I move on

Selasa, 08 Februari 2011

Lebih Indah

saat ku tenggelam dalam sendu
waktupun enggan untuk berlalu
ku berjanji tuk menutup pintu hatiku entah untuk siapapun itu
semakin ku lihat masa lalu
semakin hati ku tak menentu
tetapi satu sinar terangi jiwaku
saat ku melihat senyummu
dan kau hadir merubah segalanya menjadi lebih indah
kau bawa cintaku setinggi angkasa
membuatku merasa sempurna
dan membuatku utuh tuk menjalani hidup
berdua denganmu selama-lamanya
engkaulah yang terbaik untukku
kini ku ingin hentikan waktu
bila kau berada di dekatku
bunga cinta bermekaran dalam jiwaku
kan ku petik satu untukmu
dan kau hadir merubah segalanya menjadi lebih indah
kau bawa cintaku setinggi angkasa
membuatku merasa sempurna
dan membuatku utuh tuk menjalani hidup
berdua denganmu selama-lamanya
engkaulah yang terbaik untukku
ku percaya kan seluruh hatiku padamu
kasihku satu janjiku
kaulah yang terakhir bagiku
dan kau hadir merubah segalanya menjadi lebih indah
kau bawa cintaku setinggi angkasa
membuatku merasa sempurna
dan membuatku utuh tuk menjalani hidup
berdua denganmu selama-lamanya
engkaulah yang terbaik untukku

love,

widy

Senin, 07 Februari 2011

gak dateng 2 kali loh☺ ☹☺

hai! mau bagi pengalaman lagi nih haha curhat sih sebenernyaaa. dimana-mana orang tau ya sama kata kesempatan itu gak dateng dua kali . ya bener aja, gue pernah ngerasain itu, gue ngerasain itu sekali...dan kejadian itu gak bisa gue lupain sampe sekarang. karna lo, tetep jadi bosbesar-ku☺
gue sama cowo ini oke sebut aja Fahri ya, sudah cukup akrab dikarenakan kita sama-sama suka olahraga, iyaa kita ketemu di Gelora Bung Karno, kita gak ada yg inget kapan kita ketemu, yg jelas kita ketemu waktu kita lagi sama-sama jogging
gue lari beberapa keliling, gue ngerasa di ikutin, akhirnya gue berhenti, dan ada yg berhenti juga haha yaudah kita kenalan dan saling tukeran nomer handphone.
kita smsan, walau gak selalu dia yg mulai, kadang-kadang gue yg mulai nyapa dia duluan.
kita semakin akrab, kita punya panggilan untuk masing-masing, karna dia lebih tua, gue manggil dia bosbesar sebaliknya, dia panggil gue boskecil . kejadian itu berlangsung sampe 2bulan lebih, sampe akhirnya muncul perasaan yg harusnya gue tau, itu gak baik buat gue. ya, gue suka bahkan sayang sama Fahri.
hukum alam, ternyata kak Ihsan kenal sama Fahri, yess mereka pernah ketemu dan ngobrol beberapa kali, setelah di ceritain kak Ihsan, gue semakin tertarik sama Fahri. gue gak berani ngomong, gue diem-diem aja. semakin gue pendem, semakin besar rasa gue ke Fahri.
sampe suatu saat gue dan Fahri janjian CFD bareng, disana kita ketawa-ketawa bareng, ada kak Ihsan sama Amel juga({}) gue seneng, seneng banget.
sampe suatu saat, kak Ihsan bilang he has a new girlfriend oke mulai dari situ gue mikir, gue gak seharusnya sayang sama orang yang cuma ngasih harapan kosong ke gue. dari situ, kita gak smsan, 2minggu, 3minggu sampe sebulan.
sampe akhirnya dia putus, dan gue punya pacar...aneh...kejadian itu ngulang, gue putus, dia punya pacar...
dan finally kita berdua single, kita mulai komunikasi lagi, kita ketemu lagi.
kita janjian ketemu di GBK, gue jogging sama bokap, gue liat dia, dia lg sama temennya naik fixie. semakin lama pandangan gue semakin jauh, sampe akhirnya dia hilang...
gue misah dari bokap, gue sms kak Ihsan, dan gue ketemuan sama kak Ihsan. dan hukum alam lagi, Fahri ke tempat dimana gue sama kak Ihsan ketemuan, tapi dia tetep sama temen-temennya.
gue mandang dia, dia buang muka. dia mandang gue, gue buang muka. sampe akhirnya gue sama dia sama-sama mandang satu sama lain..dramatis...tp bikin nangis..
kak Ihsan bilang ngomong sekarang kalo kamu sayang sama dia, jangan buang-buang waktu, kesempatan kayak gini gak dateng dua kali. setelah kak Ihsan ngomong kyk gitu, gue msh gak berani buat bilang ke Fahri.
setelah kejadian itu, gue sama Fahri lostcontact lagi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! gak lama sih, sekitar 2 minggu, kak Ihsan sms kalo si Fahri punya pacar, rasa nyesel itu lgsg ada, gaktau darimana, nyesel kenapa dulu gue gak bilang kalo gue sayang sama dia, nyesel kenapa bukan gue yg jadi pacar dia, penyesalan yg dateng belakangan
ternyata cewe beruntung itu namanya Feli, cantik tinggi..beda sama gue...
sebelumnya, kalo mau ketemuan gue selalu berdoa semoga dia mau sama gue, semoga dia jadi pacar gue karna capek berharap dan harapan gue itu ternyata sia-sia, semakin lama gue ngerti, gak selalu yg gue mau, yg gue harapkan itu seutuhnya jadi milik gue.
gue coba untuk berdoa lebih realistis semoga lo dan dia selamanya, semoga dia adalah bahagia lo, gue bakal coba bahagia kalo liat lo bahagia sama dia, walaupun sebenernya itu sakit☹


for you my BigBoss 

love,

widy

face to face

halooo udah lama gak ngepost sorry ya jarang dibolehin online nih hehe sekarang bukan lg mau nerusin cerita NKIN, tp sekarang mau bagi pengalaman aja
face to face ? pasti pada tau dong ya apa itu, ya ngomong 4mata, atau tatap muka, yg namanya ngomong tatap muka itu ya berhadapan dan saling berbicara, entah itu rahasia, atau apalah yg penting bertatap muka
sama halnya ketika kita ingin membicarakan seseorang yg tidak kita sukai, seperti musuh .. ya musuh emang bisa salah satu penyebab kenapa orang jarang lg ngomong face to face, mulai dari mereka takut di labrak, takut ngadu dan sebagainya, gue lg ngalamin ini, di omongin orang di belakang kita.
awalnya, gue sama orang itu kita sebut aja Putri, emang punya masalah yg menurut gue itu sepele banget, bahkan bisa disebut bukan masalah yaa tp karna Putri itu semakin jadi, yaudah gue ladenin deh. sebenernya capek, tapi mau gimana lagi? gue diemin dia ngelunjak. pertama masalah gue sama dia sih biasa-biasa aja sampe td ada yg ngomong ke gue

wid nama lo ada tembok kamar mandi


abis denger itu gue sama tmn gue lgsg cari di kamar mandi, dan bener aja, disitu ada tulisan nama gue dan yg paling bikin gue kesel, Putri bawa-bawa nama kelas! kalo ada masalah sama gue ya di omongin baik-baik aja, gak usah pake bawa-bawa kelas. semakin hari gue semakin kesel sama orang ini, dia lebay, lebay banget! tapi yaudahdeh biarin aja, Anjing Menggonggong, Khafila Berlalu..

saran aja ya, daripada lo ngomongin orang di belakang, mending ngomong langsung sama orang bersangkutan deh, banyak sih alesan kenapa gue ngomong kyk gini.
1. belum tentu orang yg lo omongin itu nanggepin lo
2. lo jd kyk kecanduan buat ngelakuin lagi dan lagi
3. nambah-nambahin dosa
4. bikin masalah baru, dan banyak lagi deh

jadi menurut gue, kalo ada masalah apapun dan sama siapapun, mending langsung ngomong di depan orangnya, gak usah sampe ngata-ngatain dengan cara gak bener kayak gitu, malu-malu-in diri lo juga lah kalo ketauan, lo bakal malu karna lo ketauan udah ngejelek-jelekin orang walaupun orang itu gak kyk apa yg lo omongin ke orang lain

See Your Self Before You Judge Someone


love,


widy